Saturday, June 25, 2011

I NEED A DIVORCE ;BEFORE HE KILLS ME---

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I NEED A DIVORCE ;BEFORE HE KILLS ME---


I first saw Jude in my third year at the university; He was involved in the logistics planning for a beauty contest which I won. As the Miss Campus I had the attention of all the men within and outside the school. Jude of course only had a diploma, he couldn't further his education because of his family's economic condition.

His dad was a retiree who worked with the Nigerian Railway Corporation for 25 years before their were laid off, and pensions where owed these old people at time running beyond 6 months.



He was a nice looking guy, but I was so much enthralled by my euphoria of beauty and the fact that I was almost a graduate and will not want to date any one who is not a graduate or established. I dated a few guys in and out of school and all the guys I met spoilt me with cash. Was not particularly the wild type but once in a while I loved to catch my fun and I did that with distinctions.



I went on to win the Miss Camp during my NYSC orientation camp at Yenegoa and I was posted to serve with an oil servicing firm. I met some top guys who moved and shaked things, I frequently traveled with them on official assignments. It was during one of such trips that I met with Jude again after loosing contact way back. Jude apparently was now working with an airline as a marketing executive and I could see that he has taken good care of himself. I had a lot of proposals from my high fliers who saw me as a beauty queen and most of them had enough cash to throw at me. We exchanged cards with Jude and parted ways since I was in the company of one of my bosses. I did not hear from Jude again until after three months when I just got a message asking me if he could come and see me over the weekend.



I did not know what to do, I just replied him yes, at least not to sound repelling. Jude came but never asked to enter, he asked me to go in and change then he took me to a stadium to watch a local match. How could he think I was a football fan, and a local club for that matter. Yet the experience was so good that I wanted to come back again, it was such a refreshing time. He dropped me off after a casual drink and that was how once in a while we got to hook up for a club march or and drink.



He never bothered to ask me out until four months later, by then we had naturally become so attached to each other. After my service year I picked up an offer as a marketing officer with a new generation bank. I came to see a different world entirely. The pressure of the work makes the life so tough.



Jude proposed and I consented, the wedding was simple but with a class I can't define myself. Jude has become so much polished for someone of his academic background. My work took much of my time but he so understood. I imagined having a husband as demanding as my job, I would have collapsed. Jude does not mind if I am so tired to wake up and fix his bathing water in the morning. He does not mind fixing us dinner if he comes home before me. His family is so adorable and he is doing well in his career. We pooled some resources and set up a corporate outfit for Jude to manage. Since he has experience in logistics and marketing we agreed that I remain in my bank employment for a while so that we do not risk both sources of fixed income.



Jude has been so loving and patient with me, he trusts me despite several advances from men, once a between queen always a beauty queen I guess. He told me he is not suffering from insecurity and he knows I am also trustworthy. In bed, Jude is another thing entirely. He knows when I need it hot or cold, he knows when to be a lamb or when to be a lion. He can make me come over and over again; I had to ask him where he learnt his act of love making from. Love making with Jude is not just an act but an art, daily he comes up with something new and enticing. I am even scared of telling my female friends how royal my husband is in bed, for fear of any of them making moves to tempt him behind me.



Jude is presently pursuing an online MBA in Marketing from Oxford University, but he has a PhD in loving his wife, that is me. I just thank my stars I didn't loose Jude because of my stupidity that I was more educated. Now I need a divorce before Jude, my Husband kills me with love. I am enjoying every bit of it and I do not mind dying a thousand times if that is what his love is.



SamuelStephenWakdok21062011

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